粉雄救兵第一季

第一集片尾，小天使们说了一段话，大意是：所有的人类都有着共性，人与人之间远比大家所想的要相似。我们都是十月怀胎出生，我们全都在期待被爱中成长，我们成年之后都在寻找着爱，对爱的渴望是联系全人类的纽带。

更进一步地，无论是直男还是gay，都有很多共性。这些共性，可以改变大众对gay的传统观点。我想，这也是节目组特意选择五位男同作为改造者的原因。

这段时间稍有闲暇时光，陆续看了国内的一些综艺 ，《中国新说唱》《中国好声音》之类的。其实导师们都挺有趣的，一些竞技环节设置也颇为巧妙。但，无论导师还是选手，喜欢将大理想挂在嘴边，代表家乡或某个群体，肩负将XX推向全中国乃至全世界的使命。也许这并非他们的最想表达的话，但节目组需要经由他们之口，表达节目的内核。当然，并不是这种内核不好，只是当国内都充斥着这种“远大的理想”，多少会觉得缺乏现实性。

这部真人秀却完全不同。

真实，有趣，简单，充满爱与美。

第一集Tom和Abby的故事，很令人感动。邋遢的外表下，Tom有一颗善良、活泼的心。离异三次，常挂在嘴边的只是那一个而已。甜美的南方Lady Abby会爱上他，不足为奇。Tom领着Abby参观改造后的房子，骄傲的心情一如观看转播的五位天使们。一次成功的改造，由外及内。

我们都在期待被爱中成长，但期待远远不够。我们要培养爱自己的能力，充满自信地，无所畏惧地，给予别人爱。

喜欢Tan对每个被改造对象的尊重，不是强加自己的喜好。在当事人能接受的前提下，提出专业意见，打造一个不用太费力，也能保持的着装风格。

Bob设计的每一个房间也很符合主人的风格，特别是把外婆房改造成男生房那期，只改变了家俱的颜色。所以买家具还是得买实木的，耐用且可二次创造。

Antoni好帅呀～～～想和他一起吃饭，消防队做热狗🌭️的创意好棒，简单易学。

实不相瞒，看这个会上瘾。(//̀Д/́/)

弹幕说Bobby每集都是最累的，昵称“鲍工头”，这个称呼很可爱！(谐音梗永不为奴😘)

不过其实每个人都挺可爱。“闪耀五人团”都是homo，并且看起来没那么直男，但是每个人其实也有自己的性格，不完全符合对同性恋的刻板印象。只有Jonathan一直娘了吧唧的，以至于有人喊他”小姐姐……”，但是既然他没有说自己是跨性别者，就还是暂且称呼他为“他”吧。余下的其他人其实和异性恋差别并不大。

比如说，Antoni的长相和温柔妹子们很喜欢，(PS：我也很喜欢)，不知道受不受男生欢迎，但绝对是最最容易找女朋友的类型。(但凡他喜欢女孩)。

Karamo，魅力。不是一眼看过去就很帅的类型，但是那种洞悉内心的贴心真的是魅力爆表了嘤嘤嘤！

当然不会忘记Tan永恒的法式塞和印花，还有Antoni心心念念的鳄梨(牛油果)！

配合弹幕看会很有意思，比如不停有人说：这个人减了肥会很好看。胖子总是给人以自制力底下的感觉，但节目中很多人呈现的是“向心性肥胖”，也就是四肢瘦，身体脂肪堆积严重。这有可能是遗传因素，也有可能是激素性药物的作用。有些胖子很快乐，但也有人无法接受这样的自己，并且他们很难瘦下去。更何况第三季出现的瘦子爸爸，他曾酗酒，永远驼着背，那个样子也并不好看。

不知道拿肥胖和残疾类比是否恰当，但中国街头也很难看到那么多的残疾人不是吗，他们仿佛消失了一样。从这点来说，我们还有进步的空间呀。

其实看完了节目，我也仍旧无法理解为什么夫妻俩会生六个孩子，让自己忙到四点睡六点起……不过我理不理解应该不重要，因为丈夫在他们的帮助下已经找到了继续热情生活的动力。他爱着自己的家人，他拼命付出并且不认为这很痛苦。

外界的评价有存在的意义，但他并没有那么重要。人的一生，就是在与自己不停和解。

那个印度小哥说的对，五人团是灰败生活里带来希望的光，但真正能改变自己的人，只能是自己。

也希望遇到某些坎的时候，能有人来推自己一把哈哈哈。(≖_≖ )

可惜还木有遇到呢。。。

正文整理了一下三篇比较有意思的文章，关于节目，选手的后续，fab5人组的情况等等，后附原文链接和网易云上的QE歌单等等~

节选了比较有趣的部分，没有翻译，夹带私货点评，期待第二季> <。

Part 1—— "Queer Eye" Facts That Will Make You Love It Even More

1. Karamo（黑人小哥）has been on TV before – he was the first openly gay black man on The Real World on MTV.

2. Most of the cast met at a huge audition.

3. There's a reason Jonathan always asks heroes how long they spend on their hair when on camera.

4. Neal from Episode 2 now texts Antoni photos of his meals.

5. Tan didn't submit an application for the show – the producers found him on social media.

And he didn't really want to be cast, he told ET: "The first day I cried because it was so terrifying for me, because I was the kind of guy that didn't really like to get his photo taken. I thought that they weren't going to cast me because I made it very clear to the person that told me I got this job,……I went to the audition because I thought I would make some gay friends. I never thought that I would get a job." （哈哈哈，不喜欢被拍照的Tan本来参加大型面试只是为了结交好基友，没想到被选上了）

6. The people the Fab Five make over in the show are called "heroes."

9. In a cute twist, Antoni was the personal chef to the first food guide on Queer Eye.

10. Jonathan's definition of "grooming" is based on body positivity.

He told Vulture: "If you have body hair, I’m like, 'Have your body hair. Have it sticking up the top of your shirt.' I’m really about body positivity and self-love." （对于体毛是自然主义者啊~）

11. Bobby worked seven days a week to get the houses ready. And because his role means he has to order in items, he gets a heads-up in advance.

He told Architectural Digest: "While my Fab brothers often had three to four days off a week, some weeks, depending on what we were building, I worked seven days a week." (心疼不能和姐妹们一起玩的Bobby，装修最辛苦了，但是他真的好棒！）

13. They really didn't know what was happening when the cop car pulled them over in Episode 3.

（感觉黑人小哥真的是非常有群体责任感和正义感的人，再加上他作为一个social worker和psychotherapist的良好素养，说话既有内容又让人很舒服）

Karamo told Indiewire that the moment showed viewers a fear many people of colour face every day.（这一幕挺感人，警察和黑人族裔代表既有同理心又有担当地沟通）

14. There are loads of recipes that don't make it to the final cut.

（想吃TAT！）

15. Bobby has a home furnishings line.And Tan has a successful clothing line.（Bobby的家居线目前不会用到，不知道Tan的服装线如何）

19. Bobby Camp's house took a day and half to clean before they could start work on it.

有六个孩子的爸爸那家，收拾了一天多才开始装修工作，孩子多了真不容易……不过这期改造的波西米亚风格特别赞，Bobby也评价说这是他最有挑战性的一集。

20. Jonathan is still in touch with some of the heroes via Instagram.

He told Vulture: "There are two who I still chat with regularly on Instagram and they both have, even now, long-lasting changes." （好像不同的小哥in touch的嘉宾有些不同，有几个嘉宾会在ins和Twitter上分享自己的动态）

21. AJ from Episode 4 sold his house after they made it over.

Bobby told Architectural Digest: "About two weeks after we filmed that episode, I texted him [AJ], 'Hey, how's the house going? Does it feel like home yet?' He texts, 'It sold already.' I was like, 'What?' His boyfriend Dre had a house, so AJ moved in with him and they put the condo on the market."

（这个是real吃惊，节目里唯一改造的一个gay：黑人土木小哥AJ搬去男友Dre家了，然后把改造后的，还带有秋千的美丽的房子卖掉了……）

22. Karamo has an important stipulation in his contract.

He told AU Magazine: "I’m all about being representation and living my dreams. I make sure that in my contract they must hire two to three gay Africa-Americans to be on crew. I’ve done that now on the past three shows that I’ve been on and that’s important for me."

（Karamo也太好了吧*2！在包括Queer在内的参加过得三个真人秀里都要求节目组同时雇佣两到三个非裔美国gay）

23. Karamo also runs an HIV awareness organization called 6 in 10.

He told AU Magazine: “My background is in psychotherapy and I’m a licensed social worker, so I thought why not start something where we can address the mental health of black gay and bisexual men who are being infected or affected by HIV. That was a big thing for me because I’m negative but dated many men who were positive. But when I come across some men who are negative, for some reason they don’t think it is our issue. That always blows my mind because if it affects one then it affects all of us.”

（Karamo也太好了吧*3！作为一个有心理治疗专业背景而且有社工证书的人，身体力行地成立了提高黑人gay和双性恋中艾滋意识的组织）

24. Joe, the comedian from Episode 7, took his website down after the show.

Karamo told BuzzFeed: "But he took [his website] down! He said, ‘I’m not sure if I’m ready for that point in my career.’ I was like, ‘I’m building you this because in a matter of months, millions of people are gonna see you and flock to your website.’ And he took it down."

（其实karamo的出发点很好，为说单口相声的小哥建立个人网站，节目播出后网站会有不少流量，不过最开始界面里的描述真的有点太不正经了吧2333，小哥可能觉得尴尬或者not ready就把网站关掉了。）

Part 2—— The "Queer Eye" Transformations That Were The Most Challenging

Grooming: Neal, Episode 2, "Saving Sasquatch"

Interior Design: Bobby, Episode 5, "Camp Rules"

Food and Wine: Tom, Episode 1, "You Can't Fix Ugly"

I wasn’t too familiar with [the condition]. There’s [a history of] autoimmune disease in my family so I know a little bit about inflammatory foods and a diet approach to treating [them].

Tom is a guy who eats a three-pepper burrito every day, and peppers are a nightshade. He smokes [and] tobacco is also a nightshade, I had no idea! He drinks jalapeño margaritas, which have peppers — [he was doing] all the worst things he could possibly be doing for himself." —Antoni Porowski

Culture: Joe, Episode 7, "Below Average Joe"

"My most challenging episode is one that kind of flies under the radar, which is Joe Gallois. For me, [the show] was all about being comfortable and breaking out of your shell, and even though Neal was resistant, he was a little more comfortable because he had [Tan] and he could relate. But Joe could not relate to any of us.

He was just like, 'I’m scared. I don’t wanna do this. I would rather be living next to my mom and dad for the rest of my life.' And for us to get him out of that in such a short time, and to see him blossom and get a girl, it was [great].

But he took [his website] down! He said, 'I’m not sure if i’m ready for that point in my career.' I was like, 'I’m building you this because in a matter of months, millions of people are gonna see you and flock to your website.' And he took it down." —Karamo Brown

Fashion: Neal, Episode 2, "Saving Sasquatch"

（前面也提到过，有巴基斯坦血统的Tan和印度裔Neal很能产生共鸣，关于家庭习俗，观念等等……）

"Mine was also Neal, because of the fact that he was originally so resistant to being touched, being loved. The others, you could tell they were so desperately wanting a change in their lives, but Neal seemed a little hesitant at first.

But that was the biggest transformation — not just physically, but emotionally. That was my proudest moment." —Tan France

Part 3——Queer Eye为什么这么好看？

不仅负责文化和内在激励的Karamo会非常重视被改造的“hero”的情感和精神状态、渴求、沟通，Jonathan，Tan都超级会沟通，Antoni和Bobby虽然表现的没有那么多，但也很贴心，他们教人要listening,而不仅仅是hearing。他们五个人的细腻，体察，关心用一种最自然的方式表现出来真的很打动人，有的时候是很真诚的， 有的时候是很阳光的， 有的时候甚至是用drama的形式表现，但都非常精准和感人TAT。

有几个外国妹子在Twitter上纷纷表示该综艺看完后身心舒畅，比心理咨询师还有用🤓

1）Queer Eye is extremely good for your mental health if you’re in the mood for people just being genuinely really fucking lovely to each other

2） Queer eye is better for my mental health than my therapist was

Jonathan和Tan等等可以说是花式夸人~

要关爱自己，要给自己留出时间。

Twitter评论： The new Queer Eye is like...a body positive hug wrapped up in an embrace that deconstructs toxic masculinity and sometimes that Antoni guy is like hey this is how you cut an avocado

从外到内再从内到外的feeling good

The first time you see a guy cry on this show it seems strange. By the third time, however, you realise what is actually strange is the fact we simply don’t see guys open up like this on TV often enough.

Twitter的评论：

I’m really not into reality TV but Queer Eye is actually kinda sweet and all about breaking up toxic masculinity and helping men be vulnerable and connect with others

We always knew the queers would fix us all, hey.

的确，看完queer eye后的一大感受就是，原来合适地表达出vulnerable是一件这么棒的事情，无论是对自己还是对他人而言，fab5的这种能力几乎像一种天赋一样（虽然他们中的很多人也走过了长长的路）——人们在他们周围觉得安全和comfortable，觉得可以做自己，可以从现在开始努力生活，同时接受自己。能合理的拥有这个天赋的人真的是太棒太棒的人，现实生活中太多平衡不好的——要么是感情麻痹，要么是焦点失衡，过度脆弱。

所以fab5对很多人来说都是很好的一课——如何做更快乐的自己，更让人感到快乐的companian？什么是vulnerable的力量？只要看看这五个人就好了。

话说fab5大多都是三十六七岁的人，Antoni34岁，乔妹Jonathan最小，31岁。

最后放一张Tan的鸡汤图，祝姐妹们开心和有力量，

原链接：

1.//www.buzzfeed.com/ailbhemalone/xx-things-you-didnt-know-about-queer-eye?utm_term=.pj2z40bgr3#.qjwj0dD9ZE

2.//www.buzzfeed.com/keelyflaherty/most-challenging-queer-eye-transformations?utm_term=.lpP79Kg6Z0#.qkb742m6Q0

3.//www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/queer-eye-is-making-people-feel-emotional?utm_term=.wsxy9ZvEYN#.gvJ1r4yROp

扩展阅读：

4. Here's What Everyone They Transformed On "Queer Eye" Is Up To Now

//www.buzzfeed.com/keelyflaherty/heres-what-the-heroes-from-queer-eye-are-up-to-now?utm_term=.sqV7oD9QVB#.qvkeqV0GlD

5. ‘Queer Eye’: Bobby Berk and Creator David Collins Preview What to Expect on Season 2

http://variety.com/2018/tv/features/queer-eye-season-2-interview-bobby-berk-netflix-1202736653/

6.网易云音乐歌单——Queer Eye.粉雄救兵>Netflix

//music.163.com/#/playlist?id=2102826286

终于追完5季了，是很喜欢的作家推荐的综艺，他是一晚上追完的，我花了差不多小半年，主要是不习惯把好的事物一下子看完。

《粉雄救兵》真的太太太好看啦！就是他们五个不会去说教主人公说你的方式不被大众接受是错误的，也不会强制扼杀主人公的个性，他们更多的是很真诚的去展示更多的可能性，觉得这个很难得。

主人公的范围层很丰富，有市井小民，有市长，有明星的弟弟，有奶爸，有消防员还有很多，并不是特例就是很有意思。事件也很丰富，有求婚，有点燃多年婚姻的热情，有重塑事业，也有帮一些喜欢和自己性别相同的人们接纳自己和被接纳还有很多。包括日本特辑的时候，就是不同文化背景下的理解也难得，当时真的疯狂喜欢希子！就是5gays的好朋友，她在日本那个相对来说女性文化还是有点压抑的文化下，就是活的很自在，但是不自我。

鲍工头真的太辛苦了哈哈哈镜头少可能都是在埋头苦干，真这条命苦过苦瓜，但是因为他说：会比较在乎居住环境的舒适度，因为觉得在外面面对形形色色不管是开心还是焦虑或者其他，都希望回到家里是一种放松自在的状态。这个其实挺有效的，在期末周复习的时候，我特意把床收拾的贼舒服又贼可爱，然后每次从图书馆回来，回到床上就放松的不得了（因为平时我的床都是超级乱😅）。乔姐真的太绝了，当然是后来才知道他是艾滋病患者嘛，当然就更佩服他这种自信。第一季第一集那个主人公和乔姐说他觉得自己很丑，他觉得乔姐无法拯救丑陋，就是那个界面也是you can not fix ugly，但是最后当然是他改变了想法。乔姐的意思是，你不能改变丑陋，但是你可以变的自信，然后你可以变的更好，没有人会阻止你变得更好。我反而觉得，个人有不同，也没必要以社会固有审美要求自己。安东尼可爱就完事了，这个颜值啧啧啧！而且还很会做饭，当然他负责的主要是厨艺这一块，不会做饭才奇怪呢。确实为喜欢的人或者亲近的人亲自准备一些饭菜也是很可爱的事情呀！还有卡拉莫哈哈弹幕里好多人串剧到《复联》记得卡魔拉哈哈哈笑死我了，他主要是负责文化部分，或者说是一种心理督导，让主人公和自己和解的一个过程。哦哦哦！差点忘了可爱的羊驼谭，哈哈哈他负责的服装搭配部分，有时候觉得搭配的很惊艳，有时候也觉得平平无奇。哈哈哈永远的法式塞！但是他作为一个有时尚触觉的人，就是一些观点也就觉得很有意思，并且有影响到我的一些选择。比如选择合适的衣服，而不是说过于宽大的，因为主人公中有一些总觉得自己太胖之类的，会选择宽松的衣服觉得能遮一遮，谭讲的太多了说不清楚，反正就是就是选合适的，会有很不一样的效果。然后我的衣品暴升哈哈哈！

不以自己固有的价值观去评价、约束、批判别人，而是选择真诚的向别人展示更多的不一样，最大的理解支持和帮助别人，给他们一些力量，一直真诚和更多的选择信任是在这个节目又加深了一遍的想法。

实在是懒得把五季都标记一回了，但是还是要写在这里告诉自己：我是看完了的人。主要是2020年年度总结说我2020年最爱看美剧（虽然确实越来越爱看美剧多一点了），但其实是因为我标记了看过三部《飞哥与小佛》，就离谱！有一说一《飞哥与小佛》真的超级好看。