恋爱假期

  说实话，一直以为这是个很肥皂的电影，但是因为凯特 温丝莱特，（好吧，我承认是冲着她去的。）多了些高贵和温馨。
  一直把《那段场景记在脑子里。 温丝莱特对那个男人说一切结束了，你再也不会成为我人生的重点了。然后是如此开心地把他推出去，像从牢里解脱般伸出双臂拥抱这个世界。
   一直记着这个场景，因为那种感觉是那样富有神迹，似乎很美好很美好。她的深呼吸，似乎在说这一瞬间我才体会到了自己的美丽，自己的价值是那么宽广，不只是限于这个男人。
   想起林徽因说，生活比爱情更宽广。
   曾经执着过的，曾经为之把自己压得很低很低的，曾经以为这是一生的价值即使受苦亦是光荣的。
   可是，总会有那一刻真相顿悟。原来这个男人根本配不上自己，维持彼此关系的只是自己那一点点小小的不肯澄清的misapprehension,像一点点微弱的火焰，风一吹就会毁灭，然后一切回到黑暗。也许，那一刻，当Jasper说话的时候不小心吹来了一阵风吧。这么美好的自己，我却捧在你面前，任你忽视，只有需要我的时候你会说I need you.
   多美的爱瑞斯，老人说，you,are supposed to be the leader,but for some reason,you make yourself a bestfriend.她美丽，热忱，用心去爱这个世界，包括那个戳戳的根本配不上她的Jasper,“If you are a song,I will just use the good tone."Jack Black这样对她说。
   女人，何苦这样，一日日，一时时，一刻刻重复着，为了不知道珍惜自己的人而把自己压得如此如此之低。"You make me think that's all my fault,'cause I too much love you!"当凯特这样说的时候，那个男人傻傻地看着她，呵，他其实从来没进过她的内心。所以，她可以超开心地说-----oh,it's over!
  深呼吸，你闻到这空气的味道了么？有一种来自更远的吸引，总是带着新鲜，总是有着希望。
   有另一种生活你可以获得的，只要那一刻你悟到了，天地便刹那间宽广了。
   也许是上帝的安排，让你在某一瞬间陷入万劫不复，在另一瞬间让你瞬间开悟，原来事情是这样的，他是这样估量你的价值的，生活是这样的。
   傻过，也就过了。悟到了，伤痛都如财富般发光。
   然后，去做自己该做的事情，那些更宽广的生活，那双你遗失在时空里的干净得令人心颤的眼睛。
  把爱瑞斯躺在沙发上说的话送给大家吧，不深刻，但那是一个用心生活的女人的期许。她总是相信美好的。Always.
  Well,what I'm trying to say is that I understand your feelings as small and insignificant in a human's ever small.And how can you ache when you don't know what's inside you?And it doesn't matter how many hair-cuts you get,at what gym you joint,how many wines you drink with your girlfriends,you still go to bed every night comes every details .You wonder what you did wrong and how you can misunderstand him,and how in that breath moment you could think you were that happy.Sometimes you could even convinced yourself that he will see the light and show up your door.
  And after all that,how ever long of that maybe,you will go somewhere new,and you will meet people someone makes you feel worthwhile again.All pieces of your soul will finally come back.And all that fuzz stuff,those years of your life wasted that will eventually bagan to fade.

整部片子给我留下最深印象的是那个伦敦附近的小镇．

亲爱的，闭上眼睛你能想到什么？

壁炉的温暖，热可可的纯厚还是纸人先生的幽默呢？

好吧，所以她在１５岁后终于又一次热泪盈眶．．．不同于多年前父母的离异所带来的悲伤这次是因为感动．当她喝到同样放了５颗蜜饯果子的热可可的时候；当小女孩告诉她她可以留下睡在神秘的小帐篷里的时候；当纸人先生轻轻触碰到她手的时候．．．我想那个时候她的心已经融化了．她开始渐渐接受不再防备和不断克制自己的感情．以至于当汽车司机说开回去会很慢的时候她毅然决定要跑着回去．尽管她的鞋跟实在高的吓人～

如画般的田园小镇，格子围巾以及木头小屋．．．．它们真的很英伦

雪天里的小镇，还有什么是不可能的呢？

因为它温馨得很有道理．
　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　好了，到这里吧，就到这里了

　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　晚安，各位

《The Holiday》中提到的Shakespeare的一句话
‘’Journeys end in lovers' meeting’‘ 漂泊止于爱人的相遇。
出自Shakespeare的一首爱情诗歌。
全诗在此
并附上翻译


O Mistress Mine
 
O Mistress mine, where are you roaming?
O, stay and hear; your true love's coming,
That can sing both high and low:
Trip no further, pretty sweeting;
Journeys end in lovers meeting,
Every wise man's son doth know.
What is love? 'Tis not hereafter;
Present mirth hath present laughter;
What's to come is still unsure:
In delay there lies not plenty;
Then, come kiss me, sweet and twenty,
Youth's a stuff will not endure.


我的姑娘

我的姑娘哦，你要去哪里？
留下，安静倾听，
你的真爱正悄悄来临，
听它高歌浅吟
停止四处游荡吧，美丽的情人
漂泊止于爱人的相遇，这是人人都懂的道理
什么才是爱情？这就是爱情
趁现在尽情的欢笑
未来难以预测
这里没有谎言
那么来亲吻我吧！妙龄美人！
青春会稍纵即逝

part 1 　
IRIS: I have found aImost everything
　　ever written about Iove to be true.
　　我发现所有关于爱情的描述都是真的
　　Shakespeare said, "Journeys end in Iovers meeting."莎士比亚曾说“恋人总在旅程的终点相会”
　　Oh, what an extraordinary thought!
　　真浪漫的想法
　　PersonaIIy, I have not experienced
　　anything remoteIy cIose to that,
　　虽然我从来没有过这种经验
　　but I'm more than wiIIing
　　to beIieve Shakespeare had.
　　但是我相信莎翁有过
　　I suppose I think about Iove
　　more than anyone reaIIy shouId.
　　我对爱情一向比别人想得更多
　　I'm constantIy amazed by its sheer power
　　to aIter and define our Iives.
　　也深切地相信爱情能改变人生
　　It was Shakespeare who aIso said,
　　"Love is bIind."莎士比亚也说：“爱情是盲目的”
　　Now that is something I know to be true.
　　这一点我肯定是真的
　　For some, quite inexpIicabIy, Iove fades.
　　不知道为什么，对某些人来说
　　爱情是渐渐消逝
　　For others, Iove is simpIy Iost.
　　其他人则是完全失去爱情
　　But then, of course, Iove can aIso be found,
　　但是有些人能够轻易找到爱情
　　even if just for the night.
　　就算只是一夜情
　　And then there's another kind of Iove,
　　当然还有另一种爱情
　　the crueIIest kind,
　　最残酷的那一种
　　the one that aImost kiIIs its victims.
　　足以让人痛不欲生
　　It's caIIed unrequited Iove.那就是单恋
　　Of that, I am an expert.我就是这方面的专家
　　Most Iove stories are about peopIe
　　who faII in Iove with each other,
　　爱情故事通常讲的是两个人相爱
　　but what about the rest of us?
　　但是像我们这种人呢？
　　What about our stories,
　　我们的故事很少被提起
　　those of us who faII in Iove aIone?
　　孤独地坠入爱河
　　We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
　　我们是单恋的苦主
　　We are the cursed of the Ioved ones.
　　也是受诅咒的受害者
　　We are the unIoved ones,
　　更是没人疼没人爱的可怜虫
　　the waIking wounded,
　　the handicapped without the advantage
　　of a great parking space.
　　就像找不到停车位的残障人士
　　Yes, you are Iooking at one such individuaI
　　像我这样的一个女子
　　and I have wiIIingIy Ioved that man
　　for over three miserabIe years,
　　我死心塌地单恋那个男人
　　过了三年的痛苦人生
　　the absoIute worst years of my Iife.
　　我这一生最惨痛的日子
　　The worst Christmases, the worst birthdays,
　　耶诞节很难熬、过生日没人陪
　　New Year's Eves brought in by tears and VaIium.
　　除夕只能放声大哭、狂吞镇静剂
　　These years that I've been in Iove have been the darkest days of my Iife,
　　身陷在黑暗的枷锁中
　　aII because I've been cursed by being in Iove with a man
　　因为我无可救药的爱上一个男人
　　who does not and wiII not Iove me back.
　　却没得到相同的回报
　　Oh, God, just the sight of him.
　　我光是看到他
　　Heart pounding, throat thickening,
　　absoIuteIy can't swaIIow.
　　心脏就狂跳、喉咙干到无法吞咽
　　AII the usuaI symptoms.
　　全都是单相思的症状

part 2

    -Why do l always fall for the bad girl?
　　-You didn't know she was a bad girl.
　　我怎么老是爱错人？
　　你不知道她这么糟
　　l knew she wasn't good.
　　我知道她不是好东西
　　Do you have anything a little bit stronger?
　　你有更烈一点的饮料吗？
　　Thank you. Let me rephrase this.
　　谢谢你，我这么说好了
　　Why am l attracted to a person
　　l know isn't good?
　　为什么我老是爱错人？
　　l happen to know the answer to this.
　　Because you're hoping you're wrong,
　　我刚好知道答案
　　因为你祈求上苍是自己弄错了
　　and every time she does something
　　that tells you she's no good, you ignore it,
　　她对你坏，你故意忽视
　　and every time she comes through
　　and surprises you, she wins you over
　　她对你好，你就完全的死心塌地
　　and you lose that argument with yourself
　　that she's not for you.
　　完全没想到其实是她不适合你

part 3

      I understand feeling as small
　　and as insignificant as humanly possible,
　　我了解那种渺小又微不足道的感受
　　and how it can actually ache in places
　　that you didn't know you had inside you,
　　就算遍体鳞伤也要故作坚强
　　and it doesn't matter
　　how many new haircuts you get
　　不管换了几个新发型
　　or gyms you join or how many glasses of
　　chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
　　或是去健身或是和姊妹淘喝白酒
　　you still go to bed every night
　　going over every detail,
　　日日夜夜都仍在回想着每个细节
　　and wonder what you did wrong
　　or how you could have misunderstood.
　　纳闷自己到底哪里错了，哪里误解了
　　And how in the hell, for that brief moment,
　　you could think that you were that happy?
　　最后自问怎么会把短暂的欢愉
　　错当成永久的快乐
　　And sometimes you can even
　　convince yourself that he'll see the light
　　有时候会说服自己
　　and show up at your door.
　　他会想清楚回来的
　　(SlGHS)
　　And after all that,
　　however long all that may be,
　　经历过这一切后
　　you'll go somewhere new
　　人还是会重新开始
　　and you'll meet people
　　who make you feel worthwhile again,
　　再遇到值得付出的人
　　and little pieces of your soul
　　will finally come back.
　　然后一点一点地重拾自信
　　And all that fuzzy stuff,
　　而那些模糊的回忆
　　those years of your life that you wasted,
　　那么多年浪费掉的人生
　　that will eventually begin to fade.
　　终究会开始消逝

有些人看一眼就知道是有故事的人。

我喜欢一个人，一定是从他的开场白开始喜欢。同样，讨厌一个人，也一定是因为那个开场白。这真的是个三秒钟的世界。三秒钟里，你和有的人马上有坐下一聊的冲动，当然也有人让你转身就想离开。

我和很多人有过第一个三秒钟。和小艾雅的三秒钟里，隔着5米远，她寻找的眼睛、微笑、以及毫不犹豫地拥抱让我马上知道，我们是同个频道的人。

微笑，无疑是很重要的判断标准。笑的温暖的男人，最令人无法抵挡。有着冷漠父亲的女子，此生都难以抗拒与温暖相关的一切人和事。比如牵手，比如拥抱。手、怀抱也和每张脸孔一样，是那么那么的不同。你对牵手拥抱的直觉，可以比眼睛能告诉你更多。

于是这个世界才有了那么多关于牵手的故事，关于拥抱的故事，关于笑容的故事。组合起来，会变成一见如故、一见钟情、一见倾心。然后有了那句，见到他的第一眼，似曾相识，仿若已经认识了好几生。

天堂有时候一点都不远。

故事里触摸到天堂的契机，都只需要那么一点点时间。就像《恋爱假期》里，只需要打开电脑，google一下，点鼠标，刚刚经历失恋的两个女人，人生从那秒开始不一样。

住在洛杉矶的Amanda和住在伦敦附近的Iris，一个忘记如何恋爱的女强人，一个与前男友纠缠数年的软弱女才子。她们下决心要丢掉惨淡的人生，逃开身边的一切。于是，在24小时候内互换了房子。

Amanda就这样从暖风洋溢的洛杉矶到了冰天雪地的英国小镇。半夜有人敲门，打开门，mr right就在眼前，这有些酒气的英俊男子是God送来的圣诞礼物。Iris就这样从小农庄住进了豪宅，门铃响，漂亮的奥迪跑车里是才华横溢的电影作曲家。

完美的三秒钟，尽管那么俗套，却还是平凡女子的热爱的桥段。我看他们亲吻，做爱，流泪，奔跑，约定，承诺，皆大欢喜。内心愉悦。我们需要这样的故事哄着自己，不然人生实在会更加残忍。因此，我才拒绝看一切有关残忍、血腥、暴力的故事。假如我无意路过悲剧的门口，我一定是个会克制住好奇心，快点跑远的小孩。

这世界绝对没有越受伤越勇敢的生物，没有露水的玫瑰没有香气，人人需要疗伤。《恋爱假期》这样典型的好莱坞应景爱情片，是属于疗伤系的。和《麻雀变凤凰》一样，适合午夜十分，寂寞的端着水杯，看着别人的爱情落泪，告诉自己，明天一定可以更好的。

这样的疗伤，多么适合善良不忍心去打扰别人的乖孩子。她们是善解人意又温润良善的，睡不着也只会在床上默默的烙饼。

要感谢那些编织故事的人。谢谢那些开场白，谢谢那些拥抱，谢谢那些牵手，谢谢那些皆大欢喜，谢谢他们慰藉了多少孤单而良善的灵魂。

Arthur Abbott: Say a man and a woman both need something to sleep in and both go to the same men's pajama department. The man says to the salesman, "I just need bottoms," and the woman says, "I just need a top." They look at each other and that's the 'meet cute.'

Amanda: You know Graham, I just broke up with someone and considering you just showed up and you're insanely good-looking and probably won't remember me anyway... I'm thinking we should have sex... If you want.
Graham: Is that a trick question?

Graham: I have the classic male problem of no follow through. Absolutely never remember to call after a date - but as this wasn't a date, I guess I'm off the hook.

Iris: Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time she does something that tells you she's no good, you ignore it. And every time she comes through and suprises you, she wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that she's not for you.
Miles: Exactly, and on top of that there's the old standby, I can't believe a girl like that would actually be with a guy like me.

Miles: Iris, if you were a melody... I used only the good notes.

Miles: Don't blow away.

Arthur Abbott: Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend.

Iris: You're supposed to be the leading lady in your own life, for God's sake!

Iris: I've found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said "Journeys end in lovers meeting." What an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said "love is blind". Now that is something I know to be true. For some quite inexplicably, love fades; for others love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there's another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. Its called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space! Yes, you are looking at one such individual. And I have willingly loved that man for over three miserable years! The absolute worst years of my life! The worst Christmas', the worst Birthday's, New Years Eve's brought in by tears and valium. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I've been cursed by being in love with a man who does not and will not love me back. Oh god, just the sight of him! Heart pounding! Throat thickening! Absolutely can't swallow! All the usual symptoms.

Iris: It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little peices of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.